a song about TING

Thanks to Roel, i found out a song about Ting!-Ting

reference unknown (my apology)

Bill sent this to me, I think they are sharp, just to share with men and women i know:

WORDS WOMEN USE
(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with 'nothing' usually end in 'fine'. (4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It! (5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)
(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. 'That's okay' means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
(7) Thanks: If a woman is thanking you, do not question it, or faint. Just say 'you're welcome'. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' ... that will bring on a 'whatever').
(8) Whatever: A women's way of saying **** YOU!
(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

2 years ago...(a great memory in KNAW)

怀旧

一个人，是独立的，虽然不一定是孤独的。

即使有父母，子女，朋友，关系，倘若他的心如果停止跳动，他便不再有父母，子女，朋友和关系。所谓，他的存在需要被注销掉了，连同他的户口。

他所拥有的，残酷一点讲，只有他自己，即便是那毫不起眼的一根汗毛。这，并不代表他需要自私或者有理由自私。只是，他无论伟大或者渺小，他只有自己是最终的依靠。

而，亲情，友情，爱情的意义在于让独立的个体不容易孤独，灵魂不容易空虚。这些情感都是爱，区分的意义在于让人不混淆，能爱得更好，更分明， 灵魂不容易被玷污，因为爱是一种太复杂，太难把握的东西。

假如，

我可以选择，我愿意时刻陪伴着我的一双父母和一个爱人，照顾着一个或几个子女，联络着那一个或几个伙伴，保持着一些关系，邻居，同学，同事，诗友，球伴。身边只需要有一张床，一床冬暖夏凉的被子，一个草籽做的枕头，夏秋冬各两套有领衣服+一套休闲服，周一到六单双日子可以换穿有领的，星期天穿休闲的，一双蓝色休闲鞋，一双黑色皮鞋， 一双拖鞋，一个三星笔记本电脑（外置两个小音箱），一个音乐光盘包，一把梳子，一把牙刷，一个可以打电话，收邮件，照相，录像，录音的手机，几本书。

而且，自己珍重自己。为自己说的话，做的事，想的法负责，不给社会带来可以避免的负担，不给环境带来不必要的污染，不给自己的灵魂增添无谓的负担。

大概，过这样的日子，我将会需要写自己的日记和读别人的传记。

江亭

2007年1月28日星期日 0：36分（1小时）

irrationality

A human being, when attracted by another or indulged in an activity, overreacts to ambiguity in a pessimistic manner and averses to failures or losses, as a result of over-evaluation of the other or the stuff.